Photo by John Fenger

I want to plan ahead.

Do you worry about who will care for you at the end of your life?

Has a recent loss made you think about your own mortality?

Do you want to spare your loved ones from having to guess what you’d want?

Let’s make a plan!

Planning ahead is easier when you’re not in crisis. And it’s one of the most generous things you can do for the people you love.

  • Get clear on your values and what matters most to you at the end of life

  • Understand your options - for medical care, for dying, for what happens to your body after

  • Complete the paperwork (advance directives, POLST and more) and organize your important information

  • Have the conversations with family and medical providers

  • Connect with legal and financial partners if needed

I offer this work 1:1 or through small group gatherings - intimate spaces where friends come together to face these questions alongside each other.

Someone is dying — me or someone I love.

Have you received a terminal diagnosis and aren’t sure what’s next?

Are you receiving medical care but wishing for more holistic support as you face mortality?

Are you caregiving for someone who’s dying and feeling overwhelmed?

Let me be there with you.

Whether you’re the one facing the diagnosis or you’r supporting someone you love, learning about death while it’s actively happening is disorienting. There is so much to figure out - logistics, emotions, family dynamics - while also trying to stay present for what matters most. You don’t have to do this alone.

  • Understand what to expect as the body dies, so you feel less afraid and more prepared

  • Know your options—including ones you may not have heard of—so choices can align with your values

  • Navigate logistics, prioritize what matters, and check things off the list

  • Receive support for the dying person—comfort, presence, someone to process with

  • Engage in life review, legacy work, and letters to loved ones

  • Receive support for caregivers—respite, guidance, a shoulder to lean on

  • Have hard family conversations with helpful facilitation

  • Lear about MAID (Medical Aid in Dying) and if it’s an option for you

  • Have calm presence at the bedside during the final days and hours

  • Receive home funeral guidance if that’s the path you choose

Someone I love has died.

Are you in the raw early days of loss?

Are you carrying grief that doesn’t seem to have anywhere to go?

Does everyone around you seem to have '“moved on” while you’re still in it?

Let’s honor your grief.

Grief can feel isolating. Our culture tells us to process it privately and quickly. But grief needs witnesses. It needs people who will say “tell me more” when you speak your person’s name.

  • A safe space to acknowledge and express your grief—1:1 or in community

  • Facilitated gatherings where you can share, witness, and be held by others who understand

  • Rituals to honor what has passed and help unlock grief’s grip

  • Information about grief—how it shows up, how it moves, what to expect

  • Support for anticipatory grief, when loss begins before death arrives

  • Space for other kinds of loss too—of identity, dreams, relationships, the life you thought you’d have, the collective suffering of the world

If none of this quite fits but you’re grieving something, reach out anyway. Let’s see if I can help.

My door is open.

I am ready to meet you wherever you are. Let’s start the conversation and see where it goes.

Come on in.